Eliminate Chaos In Your Life

AA017960You know the moms with the planners; the crazy organized, perfectly scheduled kind?  They absolutely amaze and intrigue me!  I, unfortunately, didn’t get that gene, but I’m finding more and more that I need one!  See, I could get away with my disorganized chaos so much better when I was younger, before I was married; before I had kids.  It was just my sanity it affected.  Now, with the husband and three small kids, I’m having to rethink how I go about my day; how my choices effect them.

There’s so many things I want to do, to be a part of, but most of the time I can’t figure out how to fit one more thing in or the thought of one more thing just overwhelms me.  Now, I agree that many times our lives our filled with business and chaos that we just don’t need, but that’s not what I’m talking about here.  I’m talking about just finding time for the things that mean something to you; the things you’re passionate about or that you feel called to do at this moment in time, but are struggling to make room for.  I feel like many of my weeks are spent running around from chore to chore, errand to errand, putting out fires ALL OVER THE PLACE, doing multiple things at once and forgetting what I was doing to begin with and rarely sitting down until after the kids are in bed.  Anyone? Anyone?  Well then, lie to me – tell me you’ve done this too and I’m not alone!

But, I’ve decided to put a stop to it.  I can’t accomplish all that I want to, all that is in my head to do, living in the chaos that has been my day to day.  I’ve been thinking about the things that kill my best intentions to be organized and productive….and that’s where we all have to start: Identifying what’s tripping you up.  For me it’s:

1) Lack of Focus – Allowing myself to get distracted with anything and everything.  Yes, this happens ALL THE TIME with kids, but that can also be our excuse <gulp>!  If I’m really being honest with myself though (and with you), it also happens when I stop to check email or Facebook or Pinterest for “just a second” and 15 minutes (or 30) goes by before I know it.  It takes discipline to stay focused and sometimes we have to say no to those kinds of little things in the moment so we can say yes to the things we really want to do later.

2) Procrastination – I am so amazing at this!  I’m reasonably sure I drive my proactive, get it done right away husband absolutely crazy sometimes!  No, really, it’s bad!  It’s the reason I feel overwhelmed so much of the time.  I put off so many things that they snowball and come rolling over me.  I actually have been working on this for years and I have improved in a lot of areas, but when I have those train wreck weeks, I know there’s still plenty of room for improvement…which I will get to someday.  Kidding!

So I’m off and running with this “organized life” thing (with lots of help from my husband!) because I want an intentional life and I want to teach my kids how to lead intentional lives.  I want to be able to do the things God has put in my heart to do and I can’t do them well or perhaps at all with a disorganized schedule that runs me. What about you?  What are the things that hold you back from an organized schedule?  What does it keep you from accomplishing?  Or for the “Planners” out there (that cringed their way through this post), what helps keep you organized?

Written by Amy Pino

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Help Your Wife Win

Husbands (especially newer ones), I have a great tip for you:

On Sundays, at whatever time works for you, take some time & help your wife “win” in the coming week. Though she may also work a 9-5, your home is her favorite place & the place she desires to have in order. So, empty the sink, dishwasher, dryer, etc. Pick up around the house. Make the beds. Basically, make the house look like she would like it!

*Extra Credit: Cook Sunday dinner. Come on, who can’t at least fire up the grill.

I am telling you…it will lead to an empowered wife that will be grateful & honored by your sacrifice of some couch time to help her jump start the week.

And, no, my wife did not steal my login to write this!

Written by Andrew Pino

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