“I am NOT wearing jeans! I’m never wearing pants, EVER,” she screams as she collapses onto the floor in an absolute fit. <insert disciplinary action> Dresses only, thank you very much, for both of my girls right around the 3-4 year old mark. And while I don’t mind them wearing dresses a majority of the time, it’s not practical for the everyday…at least not our everyday. Pants and jeans were purchased for a reason and we are going to wear all of the clothes that we have with a grateful attitude, I explain for the 42nd time. She lets out a scream as I say this and collapses onto the floor again, mad as can be. <insert 2nd disciplinary action> After this scene is repeated another time (oh yes she did!), I got smarter. “Sweetheart, because you chose to continue throwing fits, being disrespectful and having an ungrateful attitude about your clothes, you have now lost your dresses, nightgowns and dress up clothes through Sunday.” <insert wailing and gnashing of teeth and a profuse amount of “I’ll never do that again.”> She, of course, did lose her “dress privileges,” but, an amazing thing happened…she stopped fighting me about the pants. It’s a small win, but I’ll take it!
If you’re struggling with entitled kids, you aren’t alone! It’s a battle we fight on a regular basis -raising grateful kids. Over the next month or so, I plan to share some of the strategies we’ve put into place in our home that will hopefully be encouraging and helpful to you; especially in the upcoming season, but today, I wanted to share a post that I read and loved over at “We Are That Family.”
She has some excellent thoughts and ideas and I find myself reading it and saying, “Yes! Exactly!” Read it, get some ideas and tell me what you think! How do you combat this with your kids or with yourself?
Written by Amy Pino
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